
Blessed Fruitfulness
Children are such a blessing to us as parents. I am also completely convinced that God uses them to shape and mold us, just as much as we influence them. Our fertility is a great blessing and a great treasure from the Lord. It is often easy to take it for granted. Many believe that you can "snap your fingers" and conceive; but often, this is not the case. Many are too afraid to surrender their fertility to the Lord, because you might wind up with a ton of children, right? I am living proof that this is not true. I have been married for 52 months now, and I only have two children. My husband and I have completely surrendered our fertility to the Lord, and our children have been coming at an average of one per 26 months. On the other hand, I have heard of many people who have been on the pill and another form of contraception, while breastfeeding a newborn, and they have gotten pregnant. It seems that the hormones from the pill interfere with the breastfeeding hormones, which result in a pregnancy. Isn't it just so much easier to do it God's way? He says, "Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord, and the fruit of the womb is his reward." We should rejoice with each arrow He sends to fill our quiver.
Stephen III is 20 months now, and I had thought that I would be expecting already. But it has not been God's time yet. I need to learn to surrender to His time, just as I had to when I first worried about getting pregnant too soon, when I was newly married. My husband and I were looking for a house and I had no insurance, because of a pre-existing condition. I was terribly afraid, about labor, money, and a myriad of issues. But in the fear, I had peace because I was leaving my fertility in His hands. He took care of it all; how I wish I had not worried. Now, I can be tempted to worry again; why isn't a little one on the way yet? But I must turn my eyes back towards Jesus. It is all about Him, after all. He has ordered all the events of my life so well thus far; why should I fear?
While in the midst of worry over myself, I stumbled upon some intriguing information at Blessed Arrows , a ministry which helps fund sterilization reversals. I urge you to read a very sad account of a lady who had a tubal ligation, whose previously healthy body had a very difficult time adapting to what occurred. It is so heartbreaking to hear of ladies who suffer problems with their reproductive organs because they had a tubal ligation. Many of these dear ladies were never informed of the possible consequences by their doctors. If you are interested in learning more about tubal ligation reversals, visit here. God has made our bodies in such a beautiful way, and our reproductive powers are treasures! It is a woman's glory, to be visited by God, when He forms a child in our wombs. May we thank Him today for the beautiful blessings of motherhood.
One testimony on the Blessed Arrows website, particularly struck my heartstrings. The Irons
family started this ministry, as they were convicted to have a tubal ligation reversal in 1998. Since then, this precious family has had 6 miscarriages. I cannot imagine the heartache that this dear family has gone through. When I saw their memorial pictures for two of their babies, I could not imagine the pain that they must have experienced. It would be easy for someone to ask, what good has come out of their reversal? Well, they said they would do it all over again if they could. They do not look through earthly eyes, but rather, with eternal eyes, remembering that their precious little ones are with the Lord. Thankfully, they have found a doctor who has pinpointed their miscarriage problems down to an antibody problem. (suspected to be due to the tubal ligation) Their doctor should be able to help them to carry their next pregnancy to full term. (Lord willing) Brad and Dawn Irons say that these miscarriages have occurred because sin has consequences. Our bodies are created in His Image, and we must expect consequences when we alter our bodies. God is ALWAYS fruitful. So when we deliberately cut off our fruitfulness, in any way, we go against being transformed more fully into His Image.
May you rejoice in your great privilege of childbearing, and embrace all the children He sends, in His perfect time. I never wanted to wonder what little one He might have sent me, that I was not willing to receive. Blessings to you as you seek Him, wholeheartedly.